A Parenting Plan Template for Parents in High Conflict

Philip M. Stahl Ph.D, ABPP (Forensic) has an excellent book called Parenting After Divorce: A Guide to Resolving Conflicts and Meeting Your Children's Needs. His book includes a section about parenting plans for parents with high conflict situations.

As he talks about what is needed in the plan, he says: "You might find that more detail is needed than you think so that there is less conflict in the future. If you create a careful and well-thought-out parenting plan, you can save considerable aggravation later." He than recommends the following parenting plan template for parents in high conflict.

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Information to include

A clear and well defined schedule

Along with a schedule that shows when each parent has the children, Stahl recommends that parents specify how exchanges will be made for visits, a procedure for a one-time change to the schedule, who has the ultimate power to decide when the parents disagree, etc.

Information about making decisions for the children

The parenting plan should state if the parent who has physical custody has the right to make daily decisions and how the parents will make big decisions together.

Information about financial responsibilities

The parents need to decide how they will pay for things that aren't covered by child support.

A process for how the parents will manage disputes

Parents can use mediation, arbitration, or other methods to resolve disputes out of court.

Provisions

Parents in high conflict should be specific about how they will handle issues concerning:

  • Who will provide care when the parent isn't available during custody time (the right of first refusal gives the other parent priority).
  • How the parents will handle transportation during exchanges.
  • How the parents will review and make changes to the plan.
  • How the parents will handle additional responsibilities of parenting (like if the child gets sick, going to school meetings, etc.).
  • How the parents will manage the child's religious education.
  • How the parents will share information with each other.

The easiest way to make a parenting plan

A well thought out parenting plan is crucial for parents in high conflict. A detailed plan with airtight legal language could be the difference between cooperation and returning to court.

The Custody X Change app walks you through each step of creating a plan so you can account for all possible situations.

It’s easy. Just use our guide to selecting parenting plan provisions and the list of provisions above to help you decide which terms best suit your circumstances.

The result will be a professional document that demonstrates your competence as a parent and has safeguards to prevent violations that could disrupt your child's life.

The easiest and most reliable way to make a parenting plan is with Custody X Change.

Custody X Change is software that creates professional parenting plan documents and parenting schedules.

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Custody X Change is software that creates professional parenting plan documents and parenting schedules.

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