Parenting Plan Articles

A parenting plan describes how divorcing or separating parents will care for their child. The goal is to protect the best interests of the child.

Legal and physical custody form the base of a parenting plan. You can add details on as many other areas of parenting as you need. Parents with more conflict typically have a longer plan — it may cover what will happen if a parent misses a visit, if the child is sick, and more.

It's best to negotiate an agreement. If you can't reach agreement, a family judge may write a parenting plan for you. You can give them a proposal so they know what you believe will work best.

Washington state is credited with inventing the parenting plan in 1987 to help more divorced couples share parenting. Now you'll find this type of document used by families and courts around the world.

General parenting plan information

Overview
The various types of plans, plus how to negotiate, modify and enforce a plan

Common provisions
Provisions on topics from health care to extracurricular activities

Age-based guidelines
Tips for age-appropriate plans whether your child is a newborn or a teenager

Special circumstances
Guidelines for temporary plans, military parenting plans, etc.

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