Washington, DC Custody Schedules

D.C. parents can agree on a custody schedule or let the judge decide. If the judge decides, parents can suggest schedules. No matter what, the schedule must be in the child's best interests.

Your custody schedule is part of a larger parenting plan.

What to consider when making a schedule

You should also be aware that your schedule may impact child support.

Common custody schedules

D.C. courts default to shared physical custody. Only if a parent is unfit or unavailable would they not have significant custody time with their child.

Parents in D.C. often have 50/50 schedules. The small size of the city makes it easy to exchange the child and for both parents to get the child to and from school.

Many parents go with an alternating-weeks schedule.

The alternating-weeks schedule on a Custody X Change calendar. Parents exchange their child Fridays at 3 p.m.Try this with Custody X Change.

Benefits of this schedule include:

  • It's good for teenagers who don't want their school and social lives interrupted by constant exchanges.
  • The child gets a long stay with each parent.

The 2-2-5-5 schedule is also common. Generally, Parent A gets weekdays one week, and Monday to Wednesday the next week.

Benefits of this schedule include:

  • It's good for school-age children and teenagers as exchanges are frequent but not overwhelming.
  • Each parent gets a long stay and a short stay.

The 3-4-4-3 schedule is another option.

On calendar, one parent gets Monday through Wednesday one week, then Monday through Thursday the next.

Benefits of this schedule include:

  • It's good for school-age children who need regular contact with parents without disrupting the school week.
  • There's a set weekend parent.

Some parents opt for the 2-2-3 schedule.

A calendar showing parents alternating whether they get Monday to Wednesday or Wednesday to Friday each week. They also alternate who gets the weekend.

Benefits of this schedule include:

  • It's good for toddlers and preschoolers who need regular bonding time with both parents.
  • Both parents get weekdays and weekends.

Holidays and school breaks

Most commonly, parents alternate each holiday annually. For instance, if you get Emancipation Day this year, they get it next year. You can alternate Inauguration Day every four years or every time it falls on a weekday.

In Custody X Change, you can choose to give one parent the holiday every year or switch who gets it each year.

Parents also usually alternate shorter school breaks, like spring break and Thanksgiving.

They generally split the two-week winter break in half. Parents alternate which part of the break they get every year.

Summer vacation is often split in half.

Some parents continue to follow their regular custody schedule but allow a week or two of vacation time for each parent.

The easiest way to make a schedule

If you're like most parents, creating a custody and visitation schedule will feel daunting. How do you write something that meets legal requirements and doesn't leave any loose ends?

The Custody X Change app makes it easy. Either customize a schedule template, or click and drag in your custody calendar to make a schedule from scratch.

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Then watch a full description appear in your custom parenting plan.

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The combination of a visual and written schedule means your family will have no problem knowing who has the child when. Take advantage of Custody X Change to make your schedule as clear and thorough as can be.

Frequently asked questions

Can each of my children have a different schedule?

Yes, especially if there's an age gap between them. What works for a toddler might not work for a teenager. Custody X Change allows you to create a separate calendar for each child. However, most siblings follow the same schedule for simplicity and bonding.

When should I change the schedule?

It's time to change your schedule if:

Ideally, agree on a new schedule with the other parent and get the court's approval. Otherwise, ask the court to modify the schedule.

If you're co-parenting, you may want to try Custody X Change. It helps you keep track of your schedule, calculate your parenting time and write a parenting plan.

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Six reasons to use Custody X Change

1. Organize your evidence

Track your expenses, journal what happens, and record actual time.

2. Co-parent civilly

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3. Get accurate calculations

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4. Succeed by negotiating

Our detailed visuals and plans make it easier to reach consensus.

5. Never miss an event

Get notifications and reminders for all exchanges and activities.

6. Save on legal fees

Our templates walk you through each step to reduce billable time.

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