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North Carolina Custody Agreement

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custody agreement in North Carolina.

How to Create Your Child Custody Agreement in North Carolina (NC)

Creating your child custody agreement is the most important thing you'll do in your custody situation. The custody agreement contains the information about how parents will divide parental responsibility, share time with the children, and continue to care and provide for the children. The custody agreement turns into the custody order, making it a legal document that the parents must follow. Therefore, it is crucial that parents take the time and effort to make the best custody agreement possible.

Creating a Child Custody Agreement

The first step in making your child custody agreement is to understand the definitions of physical custody and legal custody.

Physical custody means the time the child is with the parent and in the parent's care.
Physical custody can be given to one parent--a sole physical custody agreement--with visitation to the other parent, or parents may have a joint physical custody agreement where they both spend significant time caring for the children (although, in a joint custody agreement, the time doesn't have to be exactly equal).
Legal custody refers to the rights and responsibilities the parents have over making decisions for the child. This includes decisions about education, medical and dental care, religion, child care, driving privileges, extra-curricular activities, etc.
A mother or father may have sole legal custody over the children, or they may share joint legal custody. Parents can have joint legal custody without sharing joint physical custody.

Basically, your custody agreement contains information about how you and the other parent will share and divide legal and physical custody and a plan for how you will make those arrangements work.

For physical custody, the parents should include a complete custody and visitation schedule, a holiday schedule, and include any days or events where the custody situation changes.
For legal custody, the agreement should contain the process for how decisions will be made and how the decision making responsibility will be shared.
Parents can also include more provisions in their agreement that provide rules that help the parents work out custody issues. For example, many agreements have provisions that outline how transportation for visits will be handled.
Anything else that will help the custody arrangements go more smoothly and help the parents cooperate should also be put in the agreement.

North Carolina Custody Agreements

In North Carolina, parents who are not able to work together on a custody agreement must attend custody mediation.
In mediation the mother and father will work with a mediator to come up with a workable custody agreement.
If the parents are not able to work out an agreement in mediation, they will take their case to court.
Each parent should prepare a custody agreement that they feel is in the child's best interest and be ready to show and explain it to the judge.
The judge will listen to the mother and the father and then make the final decisions about the custody agreement.
The final agreement can be from either parent, a combination of both plans, or something entirely different. The judge will base the decision on what is best for the children.

How Custody X Change can Help

Custody X Change is child custody software that lets parents create custody agreements that have all of the information about physical and legal custody. The program helps you make an agreement that the court will accept and make into a custody order. With the software you can:

Make a complete custody and visitation schedule with a repeating cycle of custody, a holiday schedule, vacation time, and special events.
Include information about how legal custody will be divided and shared between the parents.
View the exact timeshare percentage that each parent has with the children so you can create the best schedule for your situation.
Add important provisions and stipulations to help the custody arrangements work better.
Print professional reports that contain your agreement, including a written and calendar form of the custody schedule, a list of the included provisions, and a detailed timeshare percentage document.
Track what is going on with your custody situation by marking the actual time that each parent has the children, keeping a visitation journal, and printing a report that shows the difference between actual and scheduled time with the children.
Export all of the reports to Word, PDF, and Excel.
Sync your custody and visitation schedule to your Blackberry, iPhone, Palm/PDA, Outlook, Google Calendar, Yahoo Calendar, Windows Live, etc.

Custody X Change Helps Parents in North Carolina

Create a custody agreement that meets the needs of your child and provides a clear plan for the parents.
Collaborate with the other parent to make a shared or joint agreement that both parents support and that fits the child.
Prepare sample agreements for mediation or to show the other parent.
Make an agreement and show it to your attorney so you get the agreement you want.
Save money in legal fees by working on your own agreement.
Represent yourself in court using the documents from the program.
Explore different options for the parenting time schedule and customize the schedule to fit the needs of your family.
Add provisions that enhance the custody arrangements.
Track the actual parenting time that each parent has with the children to ensure the schedule is being followed.
Keep a journal about visitation and other custody events.
Have easy access to the parenting schedule calendar.
Modify the agreement as the child gets older and the needs change.
Pay or receive the right amount of child support based on the timeshare percentage calculation.
Have greater satisfaction with your agreement because you've personalized it to your child and situation.

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Additional state custody agreement articles you might want to consider:

Related article (not state-specific): Custody Agreement.

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