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New Mexico Custody Agreement

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custody agreement in New Mexico.

How to Create Your Child Custody Agreement in New Mexico (NM)

Creating your child custody agreement is the most important thing you'll do in your custody situation. The custody agreement contains the information about how parents will divide parental responsibility, share time with the children, and continue to care and provide for the children. The custody agreement turns into the custody order, making it a legal document that the parents must follow. Therefore, it is crucial that parents take the time and effort to make the best custody agreement possible.

Creating a Child Custody Agreement

The first step in making your child custody agreement is to understand the definitions of physical custody and legal custody.

Physical custody means the time the child is with the parent and in the parent's care.
Physical custody can be given to one parent--a sole physical custody agreement--with visitation to the other parent, or parents may have a joint physical custody agreement where they both spend significant time caring for the children (although, in a joint custody agreement, the time doesn't have to be exactly equal).
Legal custody refers to the rights and responsibilities the parents have over making decisions for the child. This includes decisions about education, medical and dental care, religion, child care, driving privileges, extra-curricular activities, etc.
A mother or father may have sole legal custody over the children, or they may share joint legal custody. Parents can have joint legal custody without sharing joint physical custody.

Basically, your custody agreement contains information about how you and the other parent will share and divide legal and physical custody and a plan for how you will make those arrangements work.

For physical custody, the parents should include a complete custody and visitation schedule, a holiday schedule, and include any days or events where the custody situation changes.
For legal custody, the agreement should contain the process for how decisions will be made and how the decision making responsibility will be shared.
Parents can also include more provisions in their agreement that provide rules that help the parents work out custody issues. For example, many agreements have provisions that outline how transportation for visits will be handled.
Anything else that will help the custody arrangements go more smoothly and help the parents cooperate should also be put in the agreement.

For New Mexico Custody Agreements

In New Mexico, the courts prefer that parents have a joint custody agreement.
This doesn't necessarily mean that the parents both have exactly half of the time with the child or that expenses are equal between them.
It means that both parents have sufficient time with the child to nurture and further develop a relationship and that both parents are deeply involved in the raising of the child.
A mother or father who wants the court to accept a sole custody agreement must be prepared to explain why that type of agreement is in the best interest of the child.
When a judge determines if an agreement is in the best interest of the child she/he considers the wishes of the parents and the child; the relationship between the child and each of the parents; the child's adjustment to home, school, and community; and the mental and physical health of the parents and the child.
Parents should also think about these issues as they create their child custody agreement.

How Custody X Change can Help

Custody X Change is child custody software that lets parents create custody agreements that have all of the information about physical and legal custody. The program helps you make an agreement that the court will accept and make into a custody order. With the software you can:

Make a complete custody and visitation schedule with a repeating cycle of custody, a holiday schedule, vacation time, and special events.
Include information about how legal custody will be divided and shared between the parents.
View the exact timeshare percentage that each parent has with the children so you can create the best schedule for your situation.
Add important provisions and stipulations to help the custody arrangements work better.
Print professional reports that contain your agreement, including a written and calendar form of the custody schedule, a list of the included provisions, and a detailed timeshare percentage document.
Track what is going on with your custody situation by marking the actual time that each parent has the children, keeping a visitation journal, and printing a report that shows the difference between actual and scheduled time with the children.
Export all of the reports to Word, PDF, and Excel.
Sync your custody and visitation schedule to your Blackberry, iPhone, Palm/PDA, Outlook, Google Calendar, Yahoo Calendar, Windows Live, etc.

Custody X Change Allows New Mexico Parents To

Make a custody agreement that benefits your child and ensures that both parents are deeply involved in the raising of your child.
Look at different options for the custody and visitation schedule so you can make a custom schedule that gives both parents sufficient time with the child to nurture and develop a relationship.
Add provisions about transportation for exchanges, resolving disputes, traveling with the child, or anything else that makes the arrangements more clear.
Work with the other parent to come up with a joint custody agreement that everyone supports.
Prepare example agreements to bring to mediation, show the other parent, or to use with your attorney.
Save money in legal fees because you can do the work of making your agreement yourself.
Pay or receive the right amount of child support by using the timeshare percentage to calculate the support.
Represent yourself in court using the reports from the software.
Journal about visitation or other custody matters.
Track the actual parenting time that each parent has with the children so you know if the schedule is being followed.
Sync the custody calendar to your computer or phone and print multiple copies of the calendar so you always know what is going on.
Modify the agreement as your child grows and the needs change.
Focus on raising your child instead of stressing about the agreement.

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Additional state custody agreement articles you might want to consider:

Related article (not state-specific): Custody Agreement.

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