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How to Create Your Child Custody Agreement in Maine (ME)
Creating your child custody agreement is the most important thing you'll do in your custody situation. The custody agreement contains the information about how parents will divide parental responsibility, share time with the children, and continue to care and provide for the children. The custody agreement turns into the custody order, making it a legal document that the parents must follow. Therefore, it is crucial that parents take the time and effort to make the best custody agreement possible.
The first step in making your child custody agreement is to understand the definitions of physical custody and legal custody.
- Physical custody means the time the child is with the parent and in the parent's care.
- Physical custody can be given to one parent--a sole physical custody agreement--with visitation to the other parent, or parents may have a joint physical custody agreement where they both spend significant time caring for the children (although, in a joint custody agreement, the time doesn't have to be exactly equal).
- Legal custody refers to the rights and responsibilities the parents have over making decisions for the child. This includes decisions about education, medical and dental care, religion, child care, driving privileges, extra-curricular activities, etc.
- A mother or father may have sole legal custody over the children, or they may share joint legal custody. Parents can have joint legal custody without sharing joint physical custody.
Basically, your custody agreement contains information about how you and the other parent will share and divide legal and physical custody and a plan for how you will make those arrangements work.
- For physical custody, the parents should include a complete custody and visitation schedule, a holiday schedule, and include any days or events where the custody situation changes.
- For legal custody, the agreement should contain the process for how decisions will be made and how the decision making responsibility will be shared.
- Parents can also include more provisions in their agreement that provide rules that help the parents work out custody issues. For example, many agreements have provisions that outline how transportation for visits will be handled.
- Anything else that will help the custody arrangements go more smoothly and help the parents cooperate should also be put in the agreement.
Information for Your Maine Custody Agreement
- If parents in Maine agree on their custody agreement they can submit it to the court and it is usually accepted.
- Parents who are not able to cooperate must go to court and let a judge determine the agreement.
- Each parent will have the opportunity to present a proposed agreement to the judge and explain why it is in the best interest of the child.
- When deciding if an agreement is the best one for the child, the judge will consider the age of the child; the relationships of the child with the parents and others who affect the child's welfare; the preference of a mature child; the duration and adequacy of the child's current living arrangements; the stability of the proposed agreement; and the motivation and capacity for the parents to give love, affection, and guidance.
- The judge will also consider: the child's adjustment to home, school, and community; the willingness of the parents to give the other parent access to the child; the capacity of the parents to cooperate; how the parents plan on resolving disputes; if there has been any history of domestic abuse; and any other factor that has reasonable bearing on the physical or physiological well-being of the child.
- Once the court accepts a custody agreement, the parents are legally obligated to follow it.
Custody X Change is child custody software that lets parents create custody agreements that have all of the information about physical and legal custody. The program helps you make an agreement that the court will accept and make into a custody order. With the software you can:
- Make a complete custody and visitation schedule with a repeating cycle of custody, a holiday schedule, vacation time, and special events.
- Include information about how legal custody will be divided and shared between the parents.
- View the exact timeshare percentage that each parent has with the children so you can create the best schedule for your situation.
- Add important provisions and stipulations to help the custody arrangements work better.
- Print professional reports that contain your agreement, including a written and calendar form of the custody schedule, a list of the included provisions, and a detailed timeshare percentage document.
- Track what is going on with your custody situation by marking the actual time that each parent has the children, keeping a visitation journal, and printing a report that shows the difference between actual and scheduled time with the children.
- Export all of the reports to Word, PDF, and Excel.
- Sync your custody and visitation schedule to your Blackberry, iPhone, Palm/PDA, Outlook, Google Calendar, Yahoo Calendar, Windows Live, etc.
Custody X Change Helps Parents in Maine
- Make an agreement that is in the child's best interest and that meets the child's needs for love, protection, guidance, diet, medical care, etc.
- Create the right parenting time schedule by looking at different options and customizing the schedule to fit your needs.
- Include helpful provisions about legal custody, making decisions, making future changes to the agreement, working out disputes, transportation for visitation, etc.
- Ease the tension when working with the other parent to create a joint custody agreement by using the program to objectively look at the issues.
- Prepare example agreements for mediation and easily incorporate suggested changes.
- Present an agreement to a judge and use the professional documents to explain how it benefits the child.
- Save money in legal fees by doing the work of making your agreement yourself.
- Pay or receive an accurate amount of child support by using the timeshare calculation when figuring out your child support.
- Track the actual amount of time that each parent has with the child to ensure that the agreement is followed.
- Keep a custody journal about visitation and other events and issues.
- Modify the agreement at any time and print out copies of the new calendar and plan.
- Have greater overall satisfaction in your agreement because you personalized it to your child and your situation.
You can get a free thirty day trial of Custody X Change by entering your name and email at the top of the page. Join the others in Maine who have found the easy way to make the best child custody agreement.
The top twelve cities in Maine (by population, US Census Bureau, 2008) are: Portland, Lewiston, Bangor, South Portland, Auburn, Brunswick, Biddeford, Sanford, Augusta, Saco, Westbrook, Waterville.
Additional state custody agreement articles you might want to consider:
Related article (not state-specific): Custody Agreement.
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