Delaware Visitation Schedule

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Parents need to include a child visitation schedule in their custody agreement or parenting plan. A visitation schedule provides an outline for how parents will continue to care and provide for their children and also how they will continue to spend time with the children and develop relationships with them. A mother and father should take the necessary time and effort to develop a visitation schedule that meets their children's needs in all aspects of life. Here is some information to help Delaware parents accomplish that task.

Creating a Child Visitation Schedule

The foundation of the child visitation schedule is the repeating cycle of custody. Parents must decide the daily schedule of where the child will live and when the child will be with each parent.

• In a sole physical custody situation, one parent has custody and the other parent has visitation.
• Some common repeating cycles for sole custody are custodial parents have the children during the week, and the non-custodial parent has them on the weekends; the non-custodial parent has the children alternating weekends; the non-custodial parent has the children alternating weekends and one weeknight, multiple weeknights, or overnight visit during the week.
• In a joint physical custody situation, the parents usually divide the time more evenly (although it doesn't have to be exactly equal).
• Some common joint visitation schedules include alternating weeks of custody; a 3/3/4/4 custody schedule; a 2/2/5/5 custody schedule; splitting the weeks in half; etc. Parents should make a custom visitation schedule that works the best for the children.

Once the repeating cycle has been created and applied to the calendar, the parents should decide on the holiday schedule.

• Parents can include national, school, and religious holidays along with special family days they normally celebrate.
• The mother and father should make a list of the holidays that will be in the schedule and divide them between the parents.
• Each parent should have equal holiday time with the children. This means that the mother and father each have the same number of bigger holidays (Christmas, Thanksgiving, etc) and a similar amount of total holiday time.
• For the holiday schedule, the parents need to decide how long the holidays last (for example, does Labor day mean just the day or the whole weekend?) and if they want to share any of the days.

Vacation time and special events can also be added to the child visitation schedule.

• A specified vacation is when the mother and father schedule the exact dates that each parent can take the children on vacation.
• An unspecified vacation is when the parents put a clause in the custody agreement that says the parents may take the children for up to a certain number of days during the year.
• Special events are times when the normal custody schedule changes. This could be a child's extra curricular or social events during the year.

Along with the actual schedule, parents can also include provisions in their custody agreement or parenting plan that impact the schedule.

• Provisions are rules that the parents agree to follow to help the schedule and custody agreement run more smoothly.
• Some example provisions include: information about transportation to and from visitation, how the parents will handle changes to the schedule, how the parents will handle child care issues, etc.
• The more detailed the provisions are about the schedule, the better it will work for the parents.

Specific Information for Delaware Child Visitation Schedules

• Delaware parents need to include a child visitation schedule in their custody agreement or parenting plan.
• The mother and father can work together to make a schedule that they both agree on and they can submit it jointly to the court.
• If the parents aren't able to cooperate, the mother and father can prepare an individual schedule and present it to the court.
• The parents will both need to explain why their schedule is in the best interest of the child. The judge will then determine the visitation schedule.
• Some of the factors the judge will consider while making the decision are the child's wishes; the parents' wishes; the interaction and interrelationships of the child with each of the parents, grandparents, siblings, persons cohabitating with the parents, and any other residents of the household; the child's adjustment to home, school, and community; the past and present compliance of the parents to a schedule or plan; and if there has been any evidence of domestic violence or criminal history.
• Parents should also consider these factors as they create their custody schedules.
• Once a schedule is accepted by the judge, the parents are legally obligated to follow it. If the parents do not follow it, they can be held in contempt of court.

How Custody X Change can Help

Custody X Change is software that allows parents to create a complete parenting plan or custody agreement. The visitation schedule is the bulk of an agreement, and the program makes it easy for parents to set up the perfect child visitation schedule.

• Follow the steps in the program and go through the process of creating the basic, repeating cycle, making the holiday schedule, adding in vacation time, and including special events.
• Add provisions that enhance the visitation schedule, like rules about how exchanges for visitation will be handled, how the parents will resolve disputes, how the parents will handle child care, etc..
• View the exact time-share percentage that each parent has with the children while setting up the schedule to make sure it is fair.
• Easily make changes to the calendar and add special events when the custody changes.
• Print the documents for the visitation schedule and custody agreement. The documents include a calendar of the schedule, a written report of the schedule, a timeshare percentage report, and your included provisions.
• Track the visitation schedule. Enter in the actual time of visitation, write notes about what happens during visitation, and print a report that shows the difference between scheduled and actual parenting time.
• Export the calendar and agreement information to Word, PDF, and Excel.
• Sync the visitation schedule to your Blackberry, iPhone, Palm/PDA, Outlook, Google Calendar, Yahoo Calendar, Windows Live, etc.

Custody X Change Allows Delaware Parents To

• Create the best possible visitation schedule and custody agreement for your child and you.
• Easily look at different options for the custody and visitation schedule so you can find the right schedule for your situation.
• Make changes and adjustments to the schedule as needed and as you learn more about what works for your child.
• Include provisions such as the process for making changes to the agreement, a process of resolving future disputes, how you will handle transportation and exchanges, etc.
• Base the child support payments on the correct timeshare percentage so you pay or receive the right amount.
• Ease conflict when working with the other parent so you can make a joint custody agreement that both parents support.
• Prepare for mediation by making multiple example schedules and agreements to facilitate the discussion.
• Represent yourself in court and use the documents from the program to explain the benefits of your agreement.
• Save money in legal fees by assisting your attorney in making your agreement or making your agreement on your own.
• Once the agreement is in place, track the actual amount of time each parent has with the children so you know if the schedule is being followed.
• Modify the agreement at any time to fit the needs of your child and easily print out new copies of the schedule and agreement.
• Keep a visitation journal where you write about important events.
• Focus your attention on your child instead of worrying about the schedule or the agreement.

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Additional state visitation schedule articles you might want to consider:

• Arizona Child Visitation Schedule
• California Child Visitation Schedule
• Florida Child Visitation Schedule
• Georgia Child Visitation Schedule
• Illinois Child Visitation Schedule
• Massachusetts Child Visitation Schedule
• Michigan Child Visitation Schedule
• New Jersey Child Visitation Schedule
• New York Child Visitation Schedule
• North Carolina Child Visitation Schedule
• Ohio Child Visitation Schedule
• Pennsylvania Child Visitation Schedule
• Texas Child Visitation Schedule
• Virginia Child Visitation Schedule
• Washington Child Visitation Schedule

Two related articles (not state-specific): Child Visitation and Child Visitation Schedule.

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