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How to Create Your Child Custody Agreement in Delaware (DE)
Creating your child custody agreement is the most important thing you'll do in your custody situation. The custody agreement contains the information about how parents will divide parental responsibility, share time with the children, and continue to care and provide for the children. The custody agreement turns into the custody order, making it a legal document that the parents must follow. Therefore, it is crucial that parents take the time and effort to make the best custody agreement possible.
The first step in making your child custody agreement is to understand the definitions of physical custody and legal custody.
- Physical custody means the time the child is with the parent and in the parent's care.
- Physical custody can be given to one parent--a sole physical custody agreement--with visitation to the other parent, or parents may have a joint physical custody agreement where they both spend significant time caring for the children (although, in a joint custody agreement, the time doesn't have to be exactly equal).
- Legal custody refers to the rights and responsibilities the parents have over making decisions for the child. This includes decisions about education, medical and dental care, religion, child care, driving privileges, extra-curricular activities, etc.
- A mother or father may have sole legal custody over the children, or they may share joint legal custody. Parents can have joint legal custody without sharing joint physical custody.
Basically, your custody agreement contains information about how you and the other parent will share and divide legal and physical custody and a plan for how you will make those arrangements work.
- For physical custody, the parents should include a complete custody and visitation schedule, a holiday schedule, and include any days or events where the custody situation changes.
- For legal custody, the agreement should contain the process for how decisions will be made and how the decision making responsibility will be shared.
- Parents can also include more provisions in their agreement that provide rules that help the parents work out custody issues. For example, many agreements have provisions that outline how transportation for visits will be handled.
- Anything else that will help the custody arrangements go more smoothly and help the parents cooperate should also be put in the agreement.
Custody Agreements in Delaware
- Parents in Delaware can submit a custody agreement to the court.
- The mother and father are encouraged to work together to make an agreement they are both satisfied with.
- If the parents are unable to agree, they can each submit a custody agreement to the court and explain why that agreement is in the best interest of the child.
- A judge will then make the decisions about the terms and conditions of the agreement.
- Some of the factors that the court will consider when determining what is in the child's best interest are: the wishes of the child's parents; the wishes of the child; the interaction and interrelationships of the child with each of the parents, grandparents, siblings, persons cohabitating with the child's parents, and any other residents of the household who could significantly affect the child; the child's adjustment to home, school, and community; the past and present compliance of each parent with the rights and responsibilities of parenthood; any evidence of domestic violence; and any criminal history of the parents.
- As parents prepare their agreements, they should also think about these factors.
- Once an agreement has been accepted by the court, it becomes a legal document and the parents must follow it.
Custody X Change is child custody software that lets parents create custody agreements that have all of the information about physical and legal custody. The program helps you make an agreement that the court will accept and make into a custody order. With the software you can:
- Make a complete custody and visitation schedule with a repeating cycle of custody, a holiday schedule, vacation time, and special events.
- Include information about how legal custody will be divided and shared between the parents.
- View the exact timeshare percentage that each parent has with the children so you can create the best schedule for your situation.
- Add important provisions and stipulations to help the custody arrangements work better.
- Print professional reports that contain your agreement, including a written and calendar form of the custody schedule, a list of the included provisions, and a detailed timeshare percentage document.
- Track what is going on with your custody situation by marking the actual time that each parent has the children, keeping a visitation journal, and printing a report that shows the difference between actual and scheduled time with the children.
- Export all of the reports to Word, PDF, and Excel.
- Sync your custody and visitation schedule to your Blackberry, iPhone, Palm/PDA, Outlook, Google Calendar, Yahoo Calendar, Windows Live, etc.
Custody X Change Allows Delaware Parents To
- Create the best possible custody agreement for your child and you.
- Easily look at different options for the custody and visitation schedule so you can find the right schedule for your situation.
- Make changes and adjustments to the schedule as needed and as you learn more about what works for your child.
- Include provisions such as the process for making changes to the agreement, a process of resolving future disputes, how you will handle transportation and exchanges, etc.
- Base the child support payments on the correct timeshare percentage so you pay or receive the right amount.
- Ease conflict when working with the other parent so you can make a joint custody agreement that both parents support.
- Prepare for mediation by making multiple example agreements to facilitate the discussion.
- Represent yourself in court and use the documents from the program to explain the benefits of your agreement.
- Save money in legal fees by assisting your attorney in making your agreement or making your agreement on your own.
- Once the agreement is in place, track the actual amount of time each parent has with the children so you know if the schedule is being followed.
- Modify the agreement at any time to fit the needs of your child and easily print out new copies of the schedule and agreement.
- Keep a visitation journal where you write about important events.
- Focus your attention on your child instead of worrying about the agreement.
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The top ten cities in Delaware (by population, US Census Bureau, 2008) are: Wilmington, Dover, Newark, Pike Creek, Bear, Brookside, Hockessin, Glasgow, Claymont, North Star.
Additional state custody agreement articles you might want to consider:
Related article (not state-specific): Custody Agreement.
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