Joint Child Custody: Pros and Cons

Joint child custody occurs when parents share legal custody or physical custody of their child.  Parents can share joint physical custody (where the child lives with each parent for a specific time period), or joint legal custody (where the child lives with one parent, but both parents have equal legal rights and responsibilities to that child).  Deciding what type of custody would work best for you is a big part of your child custody case. You will need to come up with a schedule that works in the best interests of the child, and that is suitable to both parents as well. Here are a few of the real life pros and cons of joint custody.

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Pros

  1. Joint custody allows you to work out a plan based around your child’s needs and best interests. Parents with joint physical often (but not always) live close to one another, so the child is less impacted by moving from home to home.
  2. Joint physical custody allows the child to spend time with each parent. It allows each parent to be involved in their child’s life.
  3. Joint custody allows the parents to share the day to day  responsibilities of raising their child, so the work and expenses are  divided (although not always equally)
  4. If the parents are able to cooperate and get along, joint custody arrangements can be easier for all involved parties.

Cons

  1. If the parents are unable to get along, the scheduling and planning of joint custody can be a nightmare, and parental fighting can have negative effects on your child.
  2. With joint physical custody, the child is moved from place to place more often, and usually maintains two homes. As a result, important school papers or sports gear can easily be left behind in the “wrong” home.
  3. It can become expensive to maintain two homes large enough to house multiple children.
  4. Arguments can arise over pickup and drop off schedules, over who is paying “more” of the child’s expenses, and which parent is getting the easier schedule.
  5. The child can be made to feel like a referee, or used to deliver messages between parents who are unwilling to work together.

Joint custody works best when parents are able to get along well enough to decide on a custody agreement, and are willing and able to stick to that agreement.

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