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Family Code & Custody Laws in US States

Every state in the U.S. has a family code — a collection of laws about family issues like child custody.

The family code could cover anything from court procedures to parenting plan formats. Many laws are common across states.

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The family code applies to custody cases whether parents go to trial or negotiate an agreement. The judge must uphold the laws when making a custody decision and when approving a settlement agreement.

Over time, state governments change their family codes to adapt to new family dynamics.

Family law definition

Family law is a general term for the legal issues surrounding families and minors. Child custody, marriage, divorce, paternity and child support fall under this umbrella.

A judge applies two types of law to make a decision: statutory law and common law.

Statutory laws are the formal rules and regulations created by lawmakers. Family codes are statutory law.

Common law (also called case law) is made up of legal precedents, decisions made by courts in similar situations. It usually only applies if the case is unusual and the court can't make a decision using statutory law alone.

Child custody laws

Most family codes include a version of these custody laws:

  • Married parents have equal rights to custody of the children born during their marriage until a court rules otherwise.
  • Unmarried parents must establish the child's paternity before the court can make a custody decision.
  • The court cannot discriminate against a parent based on gender, race, etc.
  • All custody decisions must suit the child's best interests.
  • Child custody orders stay in place until the child becomes legally independent (e.g., when they turn 18).
  • Both parents must provide financial support for their children. Typically, the noncustodial parent must pay child support to ensure their contribution.

Many states, including Florida and Tennessee, require parents to try an alternative dispute resolution method (most commonly mediation) before the court will hear their case — but not if one parent has been abusive.

The vast majority of states have enacted the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act. And all states follow the federal Parental Kidnapping Prevention Act.

The Indian Child Welfare Act is a federal law that applies to certain custody proceedings about children who are members, or eligible to become members, of American Indian tribes. It affects how states handle adoptions and child welfare cases. It doesn't apply to custody cases between separating or divorcing parents.

Interesting child custody laws

Of course, some states have unique custody laws.

  • In Georgia, children 14 or older can choose which parent to live with.
  • Michigan assigns a Friend of the Court to every custody case to oversee mediation, co-parenting classes and recommendations to the court.
  • In Texas divorce cases, a parent can request a jury trial.

Updates to the family code

Legislators can introduce bills to propose family code amendments (changes) or new statutes. Every state has a process by which these bills can become law.

Aspects of family law and custody law tend to change every few years. In particular, child support calculations change as the value of the dollar and living costs fluctuate.

Same-sex couples can marry and divorce in all states, as ensured by a Supreme Court ruling, and states must recognize same-sex marriages and divorces performed in other states. However, not all states have updated their family codes to be gender-neutral or to reflect issues relevant to same-sex couples, such as fertility assistance and surrogacy.

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