Virginia Visitation Schedule

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Parents need to include a child visitation schedule in their custody agreement or parenting plan. A visitation schedule provides an outline for how parents will continue to care and provide for their children and also how they will continue to spend time with the children and develop relationships with them. A mother and father should take the necessary time and effort to develop a visitation schedule that meets their children's needs in all aspects of life. Here is some information to help Virginia parents accomplish that task.

Creating a Child Visitation Schedule

The foundation of the child visitation schedule is the repeating cycle of custody. Parents must decide the daily schedule of where the child will live and when the child will be with each parent.

• In a sole physical custody situation, one parent has custody and the other parent has visitation.
• Some common repeating cycles for sole custody are custodial parents have the children during the week, and the non-custodial parent has them on the weekends; the non-custodial parent has the children alternating weekends; the non-custodial parent has the children alternating weekends and one weeknight, multiple weeknights, or overnight visit during the week.
• In a joint physical custody situation, the parents usually divide the time more evenly (although it doesn't have to be exactly equal).
• Some common joint visitation schedules include alternating weeks of custody; a 3/3/4/4 custody schedule; a 2/2/5/5 custody schedule; splitting the weeks in half; etc. Parents should make a custom visitation schedule that works the best for the children.

Once the repeating cycle has been created and applied to the calendar, the parents should decide on the holiday schedule.

• Parents can include national, school, and religious holidays along with special family days they normally celebrate.
• The mother and father should make a list of the holidays that will be in the schedule and divide them between the parents.
• Each parent should have equal holiday time with the children. This means that the mother and father each have the same number of bigger holidays (Christmas, Thanksgiving, etc) and a similar amount of total holiday time.
• For the holiday schedule, the parents need to decide how long the holidays last (for example, does Labor day mean just the day or the whole weekend?) and if they want to share any of the days.

Vacation time and special events can also be added to the child visitation schedule.

• A specified vacation is when the mother and father schedule the exact dates that each parent can take the children on vacation.
• An unspecified vacation is when the parents put a clause in the custody agreement that says the parents may take the children for up to a certain number of days during the year.
• Special events are times when the normal custody schedule changes. This could be a child's extra curricular or social events during the year.

Along with the actual schedule, parents can also include provisions in their custody agreement or parenting plan that impact the schedule.

• Provisions are rules that the parents agree to follow to help the schedule and custody agreement run more smoothly.
• Some example provisions include: information about transportation to and from visitation, how the parents will handle changes to the schedule, how the parents will handle child care issues, etc.
• The more detailed the provisions are about the schedule, the better it will work for the parents.

Virginia Visitation Schedules

• Virginia parents should make their visitation schedule in the best interest of the child.
• When creating the schedule the parents should think about the age and maturity of the child, the relationship between the child and each of the parents, the needs of the child, the child's relationship to siblings or other family members, etc.
• If possible, the mother and father should work together on the visitation schedule, and each parent should encourage the child to maintain and further a relationship with the other parent.
• When the parents are not able to come to an agreement about the schedule, they will go to court and a judge will determine what the final schedule will be.
• Both parents will have the opportunity to present to the judge the visitation schedule they think is best. The judge can adopt either parent's schedule or can create a new one.
• The visitation schedule the the judge accepts becomes part of the custody order and the parents must follow it.

How Custody X Change can Help

Custody X Change is software that allows parents to create a complete parenting plan or custody agreement. The visitation schedule is the bulk of an agreement, and the program makes it easy for parents to set up the perfect child visitation schedule.

• Follow the steps in the program and go through the process of creating the basic, repeating cycle, making the holiday schedule, adding in vacation time, and including special events.
• Add provisions that enhance the visitation schedule, like rules about how exchanges for visitation will be handled, how the parents will resolve disputes, how the parents will handle child care, etc..
• View the exact time-share percentage that each parent has with the children while setting up the schedule to make sure it is fair.
• Easily make changes to the calendar and add special events when the custody changes.
• Print the documents for the visitation schedule and custody agreement. The documents include a calendar of the schedule, a written report of the schedule, a timeshare percentage report, and your included provisions.
• Track the visitation schedule. Enter in the actual time of visitation, write notes about what happens during visitation, and print a report that shows the difference between scheduled and actual parenting time.
• Export the calendar and agreement information to Word, PDF, and Excel.
• Sync the visitation schedule to your Blackberry, iPhone, Palm/PDA, Outlook, Google Calendar, Yahoo Calendar, Windows Live, etc.

Parents in Virginia Use Custody X Change To

• Create a visitation schedule and custody agreement based on the needs of the child and that provides a clear plan for how the parents will continue to care for the child.
• Compare different custody and visitation schedules so you can customize the schedule to fit everyone's needs.
• Add provision to help the schedule work better and that give the parents standards for how to raise the child.
• Work together with the other parent to come up with a joint or shared agreement and schedule that everyone supports.
• Prepare sample visitation schedules and agreements to show at mediation, to show to your attorney, or to show to the other parent.
• Save money in legal fees.
• Represent yourself in court and use the documents from the program to present your agreement and schedule to the judge.
• Pay or receive the right amount of child support by using the timeshare percentage in the support calculation.
• Track the actual visitation and parenting time so you know if the schedule is being followed.
• Keep a journal about visitation or other custody matters.
• Modify the agreement as your child gets older and the needs change.
• Have peace of mind concerning your custody situation.

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Additional state visitation schedule articles you might want to consider:

• Arizona Child Visitation Schedule
• California Child Visitation Schedule
• Florida Child Visitation Schedule
• Georgia Child Visitation Schedule
• Illinois Child Visitation Schedule
• Massachusetts Child Visitation Schedule
• Michigan Child Visitation Schedule
• New Jersey Child Visitation Schedule
• New York Child Visitation Schedule
• North Carolina Child Visitation Schedule
• Ohio Child Visitation Schedule
• Pennsylvania Child Visitation Schedule
• Texas Child Visitation Schedule
• Virginia Child Visitation Schedule
• Washington Child Visitation Schedule

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