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Virginia Parenting Plan

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parenting plan in Virginia.

How to Create Your Parenting Plan in Virginia (VA)

Your parenting plan is the most important document in your child custody situation. The parenting plan outlines all of the information about how you and the child's other parent will continue to care for the child after a divorce or separation. It is vital that parents take the time to create a detailed, well-thought out plan that centers around the best interests of their children. Here are some things to consider for parents making a parenting plan in Virginia.

What to Include in a Parenting Plan

Your parenting plan should include information about how parents will divide parental responsibility and share time with the children.

Legal custody refers to the parent's rights to make decisions for and about their child. This includes decisions about education, child care, religion, medical and dental care, etc. When the children are older it includes decisions about driving, working part time, extra-curricular activities, school functions, etc.
In sole legal custody, one parent has the right to make decisions about the child.
In joint legal custody the parents share this responsibility. The parents can divide the decisions between them or they can consult each other about all of the issues.
Physical custody refers to how the parents share the time with the children. Parents need to figure out where their children will live during the week, on weekends, during holidays, vacation time, etc.
In sole physical custody, the child lives with one parent and has visitation with the other parent.
In a joint physical custody arrangement, the child spends substantial time living with both parents. The time doesn't have to be exactly split in half in joint physical custody.

So, Your Parenting Plan Needs to Have

The type of legal and physical custody the parents have chosen (parents may have joint legal custody without joint physical custody),
A custody and visitation schedule that shows when the child is with each parent,
A holiday and vacation schedule,
How the parents will make decisions for the child,
Provisions that the parents want to include about parenting, and
Any other information the parents want to include concerning the child custody arrangements.

Your Virginia Parenting Plan

Virginia parents can collaborate and submit a joint plan to the court that will usually be accepted.
If the parents cannot resolve disputes or other issues about the child custody, the court will make the final decision about the custody arrangements.
The court will accept a parenting plan that is in the child's best interest.
They consider many factors in order to determine this. Some of the factors include the age and maturity of the child, the age and mental condition of the parents, the relationships between the child and the parents, the needs of the child, the relationship of the child to siblings and other family members, which parent supports the child contacting the other parent, how the parents are able to provide for the child, etc.
A parent who is trying to persuade the court to accept his/her agreement should be prepared with a detailed plan that has reasons why the plan is the best one for the child.

How Custody X Change Can Help

Custody X Change is custody software that helps parents create a parenting plan. The software makes it easy to put in all of the necessary information so that your plan can be accepted by the court. With the software, you can:

Create your custody and visitation schedule by making a repeating cycle of custody, a holiday schedule, and adding in any vacation time and special events.
See the exact timeshare percentage that each parent has with the children when you set up your schedule.
Include information about how legal custody will be divided.
Add extra parenting provisions and stipulations into your plan.
Print professional documents of the entire parenting plan, including a written form of the custody and visitation schedule, a calendar of the custody and visitation schedule, the detailed time-share and overnight percentage report, and the list of provisions the parents have included.
Track actual visitation, keep a journal about visitation, and print a report that shows the difference between scheduled and actual visitation time.
Export all of the documents to Word, PDF, and Excel.
Sync the custody calendar to your Blackberry, iPhone, Palm/PDA, Outlook, Google Calendar, Yahoo Calendar, Windows Live, etc.

Custody X Change Helps Virginia Parents

Create the best parenting plan for your child and get the court to accept it.
Work with the other parent to make a plan that everyone supports.
Show multiple sample plans at mediation or to the other parent.
Prepare and present a plan in court and use the thorough documents to explain in detail why the plan is in the best interest of the child.
Find the right custody and visitation schedule by looking at various options until you find what you want.
Include provisions that reduce parental conflict and help you resolve concerns.
Save money in legal fees by doing your own work.
Be more satisfied with your plan by contributing what you know will work for your child instead of relying on the courts.
Track the actual amount of time each parent has with the children so you know what is going on with the schedule.
Keep a custody journal.
Pay or receive the right amount of child support by using the timeshare calculation to figure out support.
Modify the plan at any time and make changes to fit the needs of your child.
Feel confident about your custody situation by knowing what is going on.

You can get a free thirty day trial of Custody X Change by entering your name and email at the top of the page. Join the others in Virginia who have found the way to make the best parenting plan.

The top twenty cities in Virginia (by population, US Census Bureau, 2008) are: Virginia Beach, Norfolk, Chesapeake, Arlington, Richmond, Newport News, Hampton, Alexandria, Portsmouth, Roanoke, Suffolk, Lunchburg, Dale City, Reston, Centreville, Annandale, Burke, Chantilly, Danville, Harrisonburg.

Additional state parenting plans you might want to consider:

Two related articles (not state-specific) to read: Parenting Plan and Parenting Plan Template.

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