The 4-3 schedule is an option for a 60/40 physical custody schedule. Your child spends four nights of the week with you and three with the other parent. This schedule has a one week rotation. You can choose the days to work best for your schedule.
Below is a visual calendar of the 4-3 schedule made on the Custody X Change software. Time with the mother is represented in pink and the father blue.

The 4-3 schedule is a great option when both parents want to spend time each week with their children while having a 60/40 physical custody schedule. This schedule requires frequent exchanges and a decent relationship between both parents. You will need to be able to communicate frequently about what is going on with your child. Close proximity to the child's school and the home of the other parent is ideal with this schedule.
The biggest concern with the 4-3 schedule is to make sure your child can handle going back and forth multiple times a week. Some children really struggle switching homes so much because they feel like a perpetual visitor and they don't belong in either home.
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You can make the 4-3 schedule work for you. Below are some different examples of how we have changed the schedule to meet different needs.
This schedule has the mother with four nights and the father three. The three nights the father has fall on the weekend. This is also sometimes referred to as a 60/40 every weekend schedule.

This last schedule example gives the father the first four days of the week and the mother the last three.

Creating a 4-3 schedule using Custody X Change is very simple.
First, download and install the free trial.
Next, click on the first tab, "Regular Schedule" and you will see a calendar. To the right of the calendar is a menu of all the different custody schedules or the ability to create your own. Under the 60/40 title, select Every weekend.
The calendar will automatically fill out for you. You can now adjust the 4-3 days to work best for you. Make any additional changes so the schedule fits your needs. Watch the video tutorial for additional information on creating a custody schedule.
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