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When drafting a parenting plan in California, you should be aware of the laws mandated by the state, contained in the California Family Code, Division 8. The law provides specific information regarding the manner in which child custody cases are decided.
The law states the best interests of the child are a priority in California, and will be considered above all other factors when the court makes custody decisions.
By becoming familiar with the laws in the California Family Code, you will have better insight as to what the courts expect and what you can expect from them.
Complying with the law while writing a parenting plan in your child's best interests is a great way to ensure your plan is accepted by the court.
The state defines some of the custody terms you'll use in your agreement in Part 1, Chapter 1 of Division 8 of the California Code:
These definitions are useful to know as you decide what type of agreement to make.
Do you both want to share the responsibility to make decisions for your child? Do you want each of you to have significant contact with your child? If so, you should have a joint custody agreement.
If you want your child to live with one parent and to give that parent full responsibility for decisions, then you should have a sole custody agreement.
It is possible for parents to share joint legal custody while one parent has sole physical custody. It all depends on what you agree upon and what the court decides.
California recognizes that children benefit from having both parents play active roles in their lives, and the state presumes that joint custody arrangements serve the best interest of the child (CA Fam Section 3080).
As joint custody is the preferred custodial arrangement, the court usually rules in agreement with parties who mutually request joint custody.
If one parent requests joint custody but the other requests sole custody, the court may rule against the wishes of one parent and grant joint custody anyway, as long as it is deemed proper by the court (CA Fam Section 3081).
If appropriate, the court may also be compelled to order sole physical custody to one parent. The other parent may be granted reasonable visitation rights.
Regardless of the custody arrangement decided upon by the court, you will be encouraged to submit a parenting plan that will encompass the needs and best interest of your child.
California Code, Division 8, Section 3011, provides some of the factors the court depends on when making an order regarding custody and determining the best interest of the child, including, but not limited to:
The State of California also provides for children old enough (usually age 14) to state a parental preference to do so (CA Fam Section 3042).
Additionally, the State of California recognizes that both parents are entitled to rights to the child and does not discriminate on the basis of gender (CA Fam Section 3010a).
The custody agreement made in the parenting plan will be in place for a long time so it is important to contemplate the needs of your child while including the following:
As long as the parenting plan is detailed, fair, and written in the best interest of the child, the Superior Courts in the State of California should rule it a court order.
While it may seem difficult to work with the other parent when drafting a parenting plan, it is worthwhile and truly in the best interest of your child.
A judge, seeing hundreds of family law cases a month, is not familiar with your individual family dynamic and the specific needs of your child. As parents, you are the most knowledgeable and best suited people to make the custody agreement for your child.
This is why California courts may require you to submit a parenting plan (CA Section 3040a1).
If you cannot agree, Superior Courts in the State of California shall provide a mediator so you can try to develop a parenting plan together (CA Fam Section 3160).
If the parents attend mediation and are unable to agree, the suggestion of the mediator is likely to be accepted by the court. The court may also appoint an independent counselor to meet with each of you, evaluate the situation, and make a recommendation to the court.
It is important to be prepared with a pre-drafted parenting plan when you attend mediation so that important factors are not forgotten and left out of the plan. This will also give the mediator something to work off of beside the old "standard" visitation schedules and parenting plans.
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