Avoid the Custody Conflict

The child-sharing arrangement is a point of conflict for many divorced couples, but it can (and should) be avoided.

How can this conflict be avoided?

The easiest way is for the parents to sit down together and hammer out a fair parental custody arrangement.  If both of the parents are involved in creating the arrangement, they will be much more likely to uphold it.  And if they both agree that the arrangement is fair, it will likely persist for years to come.

The Custody X Change software lets parents sit down together and easily hammer out a fair child-sharing arrangement, thus reducing the conflict. It can be a great child custody help for any situation.

Two ways it does this is:

  • Both parents can see the time-share / overnight percentages at all times, which provides clarity into the fairness and increases trust.
  • Both parents can walk away with an identical printed calendar, which eliminates any scheduling confusion (all too common around birthdays and holidays).

This process has an added benefit of reducing the legal fees surrounding a custody battle.  It also provides the children, if they are old enough to read a calendar, an easy way to know where they will be spending the holidays.

Not all parents are willing to sit down together (and it does take both to be willing), but those who have done so have sent raving testimonials.


October 19, 2009 | Child custody & visitation blog | RSS feed
Categories: Child Custody Help, Custody X Change
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